The fog is slowly lifting. I’m re-integrating parts of my life that I put on hold while I was going through the election (expressing myself through my caring and feeding of friends and family, enjoying art, and finding joy in new cultural experiences). I know that there is a new reality. I know that I need to prepare for things to come. We are restless, yet we need rest. There is guilt for wanting to participate in simple pleasures while others are being traumatized. I’m still reconciling those parts of my life. I’m going to practice self-care and remind myself of the flight safety announcements that tell you that should you need oxygen, please put your oxygen mask on first before assisting others. I hope you do the same.
Here’s Tuesday Truths!
- In light of this past week, there have been an increase of hate crimes so if you find yourself in the position to help others being subjected to this kind of harassment, here’s a guide to help in the situation. Here’s also a video that gives you practical ways to be an ally and combat racism. The Southern Poverty Law Center also has a guide on how to respond to everyday bigotry. **I know that it’s tiring and we feel defeated. The more we help one another, the less that we’ll feel small and retreat. You are BRAVE and we each have a light to shine.**
- For the guys who read this blog, here’s what you can say to the women who supported Hillary Clinton and for those who are white, here’s what you can do to be an ally.
- Women of color made gains in the U.S. Senate and that’s certainly cause for celebration. Learn more about Senators Elect Tammy Duckworth, Kamala Harris & Catherine Cortez Masto. Know their names because I hope that they’ll be in the news making waves.
- Are you looking for organizations where you can donate time and money? This is a great compilation of groups that are pro-woman, pro-immigrant, pro-earth, anti-bigotry. I would also include the Women’s Information Network (WIN) to this list and for AAPIs, America’s Opportunity Fund (AOF).
- How important is social trust when it comes to having an impact on society? I learned a great deal from this article, however I would add my 2 cents in that although the US has experienced low social distrust in the past (the discrimination of Germans, Irish, & Italians), the people who were immigrating to the US didn’t look that much different than the people who distrusted them. African Americans, Latinos, AAPIs – we look visibly different and that creates social bias almost immediately. When you hear people talk about how fortunate they are to be “White Latinos” that tells you that being “passable” has a lot to do with how people perceive you.
- As many of you know, I’m a BIG fan of the Campaign Workshop and they hit it out of the ballpark again with their latest post on your next steps after your candidate loses their campaign. Terrific tips!
- If this campaign cycle has rocked your psyche, let me reassure you that you’re not alone. I felt this kind of desolation after the 2000 campaign. It made me question whether it was all worth it. At that point, I had already stepped out of politics (my quarter life crisis) and made a commitment to go back in only to find myself on the losing side. What if you also wonder if there’s a life outside of politics because you were also meant to do multiple careers throughout your life? Here’s a terrific read on what it means to have more than one true calling.
Thanks for reading/sharing!